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BISHOP LEGATT'S LETTER
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STEPS FOR IDENTIFICATION OF CHILDREN WITH DISABILITIES AND INCLUDING THEM IN THE CELEBRATION OF SACRAMENTS |
| 1. |
Walking with the parents after
the child is born. Appointing someone from the parish as a coordinator
for
services for those with disabilities. Parents have
dreams and hopes for all of
their unborn children. Their children are the future. Their children
will go on
to do bigger and more significant things than they.
Becoming parents of a child with disabilities is often
perceived
as a blow to the hopes and dreams they held for that child. The birth
of the
child may evoke anger with God, deep feelings of loss, and even
thoughts of
shame. In some instances it may be that parents initially feel the
birth of a
child with disabilities to be punishment from God. It would be valuable if someone in the parish, preferably someone who has a child with disabilities walk this journey with them and to help them grieve the loss of dream which they are experiencing, and to help them recognize that this child is gift. It is important to make sure that parents know that the parish is there to support them. |
| 2. |
Encouraging the parents of children with disabilities to feel welcome and to be active participants in the parish life. |
| 3. |
Encouraging the parents to bring
their child to Mass regularly, preferably the same Mass in a larger
parish.
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| 4. |
Learning
to recognize the gifts this person brings rather than the disability. |
| 5. |
Encourage the parents to teach the child the nature of the meal that is being celebrated. |
| 6. |
Encourage the parents to teach the child simple signs of reverence, making the Sign of the Cross, etc. |
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As the child grows, include the child in regular parts of parish life, e.g. children’s liturgy, bringing up the gifts, altar serving. |
| 8. |
Include the
child in regular
catechism classes. Explain to the other children the nature
of the disability.
Children will accept if they understand. If the child needs one on one
attention make sure there is someone there to help the child feel
integrated
with the group. This person should be someone with whom the child can
and
wishes to enter into a trusting relationship. It is important to remember a line from the video A Credo for Support “Do not try to be my friend. I deserve more than that. Get to know me. We may become friends.” |
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Share
with parents the bishop’s letter regarding preparation of children with
disabilities for the sacraments. Make sure they and their children feel welcome and are included in parish programs. It is best to begin them with the Sacrament of Eucharist. It is important that the parents accompany them on this journey, or that someone with whom they are in a trusting relationship be a mentor or sponsor for them. The program authorized for use in the Diocese of Saskatoon is Barube’s On Our Way With Jesus series, which is based on the Rite of Christian Initiation of Children. In it the authors say that initiation of children into the sacramental life of the church involves five things: a) The experience of mentoring
We don’t come to faith alone. It is in modeling a life based on faith that allows the child to grasp the concept of love and how that translates into trusting relationships. The mentor must be able to understand that what we perceive as disability is normalcy for the child with the disability. b) The experience of the Gospel Telling
children gospel stories will help children to live their lives as
Jesus did, trusting the Father. They
will learn to live in the moment, because this moment is the most
important one
of their lives. It is in this moment
that we are aware of God’s sustaining presence with us. Teaching them
gospel
stories of Jesus’ acceptance and healing of the excluded will teach
them much
about how we are to live in our daily lives. We
will learn that power comes from powerlessness. How
much we can learn
from those with disabilities about living in trust, learning to live in
awareness of God’s sustaining presence.
c) The experience of community All children need to have the experience of a praying, welcoming, inclusive community that is at the service of all, where they can really experience the resurrected Christ. The parish needs the children to bring forth their enthusiasm, their sense of wonder, their truth, and their questions to be converted to being, a loving, welcoming community. Children with disabilities will certainly teach us what it means to be a welcoming community. If we enter into their lives and if they befriend us we will learn much from them. They can teach us much about what it means to be human and what it means to live in community. d) The experience of Christian Ritual Rituals are important because they speak to the mind, the body, the spirit, the heart, the guts; they speak to both our thoughts and our emotions. Children, especially children with disabilities, are more in their bodies than their heads; therefore, they love and respond to ritual. How important to incorporate them into the worshiping community. e) The experience of time Every person wants to know that they are the beloved from the very beginning. Eucharist is one of our first rites of passage that proclaims to us that we are the beloved of God who nourishes us as a community through the body and blood of Jesus. Joined together in common belief and common experience of the Eucharist we are challenged to live in communion with God and one another. Approaching the Eucharist we must learn that we are called to be an inclusive community. Eucharist should not be a sign of exclusion; it must be a sign of inclusion. |
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When they are ready for reconciliation, have a very sympathetic priest walk them through the sacrament. |
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Children with disabilities should be prepared for confirmation at the regular age, with other children. During preparation for Confirmation make sure children with disabilities are introduced to service projects and are included with their able-bodied peers. It would be good to pair them with and able-bodied child who will help them with the project. |
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Children with disabilities will
be gift to the church if they are included in the life of the church.
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